Thinking of Getting a Puppy?
By Darran the Dogman
Originally published Nov 17, 2019
Picking the Perfect Puppy
A puppy should be no younger than 8–12 weeks before being separated from its mother. Bringing them home too early can lead to behavioural and developmental challenges.
1. Puppy Care – Consider the Costs
Yes, puppies are expensive—but it’s not just about the purchase price. There are vet visits, vaccinations, desexing, grooming, toys, training, food, and potential dog daycare costs.
To be a responsible puppy parent, you need time, money, and energy. In New Zealand, the average spend on a puppy in the first year is around $1500, not including the initial cost of the dog.
Too many puppies end up abandoned or euthanised because people didn’t consider the long-term commitment.
2. Research the Breeder
Is the breeder reputable? Do you know anyone who has adopted from them before? Will they take the puppy back if things don’t work out?
Check for:
- Proper paperwork and health checks
- Contractual obligations (e.g. desexing agreements)
- Honest and ethical breeding practices
Visit trusted sources like:
Dogs NZ Breeder List
Dogzonline NZ
Tip: Even some TradeMe breeders are Kennel Club approved—but always verify. If you’re considering a crossbreed, do your homework even more thoroughly.
3. Consider the Breed and Temperament
Match the breed to your lifestyle, not just your aesthetic preferences. A Border Collie won’t thrive in a sedentary household. Likewise, high-maintenance coats (like an Old English Sheepdog) need either time or money to manage.
Think about:
- Energy levels
- Size
- Temperament
- Coat care
- Your own age, health, and activity levels
4. Don’t Rush the Process
Visit the puppies more than once if possible. Watch them play. Get on the floor and see how they respond to you.
Look for a puppy that’s social and playful—not overly shy or aggressive. Ask for videos if you can’t visit more than once.
5. Ask to See Mum and Dad
The mother’s temperament is especially important—many behavioural traits are passed down. If the breeder says the mother is “too sick” or “not good with people,” that’s a red flag.
Kennel Club approved breeders will always let you see the mother, or explain if artificial insemination was used. If the mother is aggressive or fearful, it may be a preview of what’s to come.
6. Go for the Middle Puppy
The largest puppy might be a pushy resource guarder. The smallest might be undernourished or overly timid.
The middle pup is often the best bet—not greedy, not weak, more socially balanced. You’re looking for a confident, friendly pup with fair play skills.
7. Sociability Matters
That puppy sitting sadly in the corner? We all want to “rescue” it—but be cautious. Shy, sick, or antisocial puppies can be challenging to rehabilitate, and some may already be exhibiting early signs of behavioural issues.
Sometimes, that “sad puppy” is actually a bully being avoided by the others—or simply not emotionally or physically well.
8. Get a Vet Check
Make sure:
- The puppy has been vet-checked
- They’ve received worming and first vaccinations
- There are no signs of tummy issues (check the back end!)
Don’t be afraid to ask for vet records or even call the breeder’s vet to confirm.
9. Crossbreeds Can Be Fantastic
Crossbreeds can make loyal, stable pets—but you’re taking a gamble on size and temperament.
Some key points:
- Mixed breeds may have up to 7 different sires—be prepared!
- A calm breed can offset a high-strung one—but the opposite is also true
- Avoid combinations of overly intense or reactive breeds unless you’re very experienced
10. Bring Them Home at the Right Time
Never take a puppy home before 8 weeks, and ideally closer to 12 weeks.
Puppies who stay with their litter until at least 12 weeks and continue proper socialisation afterwards are less likely to show aggression later in life.
And Finally… Enjoy the Process
This is a big decision—but it should also be a joyful one. Be thoughtful, take your time, and choose a pup who will thrive with you for the long haul.
The right dog, chosen with care and compassion, will change your life in all the best ways.